We will learn about the first 12 things women notice about men. Now, let’s begin. What are the very first things that women notice about the men that they meet? Men often think they know the answers to this question, but more often than not they are wrong. For example, some men assume that women are attracted to aloof, mysterious guys. As a result, they try to adopt this persona. They might act cold, antisocial, or even a little bit rude! But this almost never works.
The truth is that women generally prefer men who are very prosocial and easy to get along with. This doesn’t mean you have to be weak or submissive or excessively agreeable. This is a common misconception. Instead, it just means that approachable attractive men have a lot more success than unapproachable attractive men. You can be confident and friendly at the same time. Going forward, let’s consider this kind of guy the ideal man. A perfect balance of attractive and noble. Then again, there are many surface level traits that objectively do make a difference in how you’re perceived .
Whether we like to admit it or not, humans are evolutionary creatures that have preferences for certain physical and nonphysical characteristics. Just as men may prefer an athletic woman with a symmetrical face and nice hair, women have the same sort of preferences about men. And the good news is that some of these characteristics are well within your control. We often underestimate just how much power we have over how attractive we are. Sometimes, it just takes someone who is willing to recognize their strengths and weaknesses. Someone who is willing to adopt the responsibility to change their life in a positive direction. But first, you have to understand what these traits are – which ones you can control, and which ones you can’t. So what are the very first things that women notice about the men that they meet? In this video, we are going to cover 12 of the most common traits women instantly notice about men. If you’re trying to make a great first impression, these rules will guide you in the right direction.
1. The Tower Feature
Like a tower in a city skyline, height is one of the most commonly appreciated features in men. Women consistently rank it as one of their top aesthetic preferences, and it can make a big difference in how any man is perceived. After all, a man’s height is instantly recognizable, and it can make him stand out from everyone else around him. Of course, men cannot change this feature, and it’s very important to remember that it’s only one of a whole host of features that make up a man’s first impression. So if you aren’t particularly tall, you still have every reason to be confident.
2. Jaws of Steel
Another feature that quickly stands out is the shape and definition of your jaw line and chin. If you have a square jaw, and a relatively strong chin, women will notice them instantly. These features make men seem more masculine and more powerful to women. However, they are considered more traditionally masculine features, and not all women prefer a very strong jaw or chin. If you aren’t blessed with excellent facial definition, don’t worry. There are still plenty of strategies to increase the aesthetic of your face. For example, you could grow a beard, learn about mewing, or lose weight. All of these habits will help you on your path to better aesthetics.
3. The Manly V
In bodybuilding, the V shape is one of the most highly sought after aesthetic features. It includes broad shoulders and a narrower waist. However, you don’t have to be a bodybuilder to achieve this aesthetic. At least not a professional one. Instead, you can focus on simple exercises and routines that will improve your body shape. Building your arms, chest, and shoulders specifically will help to develop a stronger looking upper body, and regularly performing cardiovascular exercise will help you achieve the narrower waist that perfectly complements it.
4. The Kind Smile
Many men fail to appreciate the power of a kind and broad smile. Not only does smiling make men appear significantly more handsome and traditionally attractive, but it also makes them much more approachable. Women will consider you a more viable social connection if you look less intimidating, and that will go incredibly far in helping you build a better social and dating life. You don’t need perfectly straight teeth or completely white teeth. While you should maintain good dental hygiene and habits, a natural and authentic smile doesn’t need to be perfect in order to make you significantly more attractive to women.
5. The Fireplace Style
What kind of style is most appealing to women? Some men believe that style isn’t very important. They think all you need to have is good natural features, and if you don’t, you’re out of luck. But this isn’t true. If you approach style in the right way, it can make a huge difference on your attractiveness. One of the most universally accepted attractive styles for men is something we like to call the fireplace style. Other words you could use to describe it include clean, warm, fancy, and well organized. Examples of clothing in this style would include high quality sweaters, polo shirts, button downs, high-quality cuffed jeans, glasses, and a nice pair of boots.
6. Tone Of Your Voice
The tone of your voice can make a big difference in how attractive you are perceived to be. However, this applies for both men and women. For example, women with higher pitched voices tend to be perceived as more tractive. In contrast, men with deeper voices are often considered more desirable. While it can be challenging to significantly change the tone of your voice, there are certain strategies you can implement that will make a difference. For example, you can simply practice speaking in a lower voice while you are alone and in a private space. This technique slowly but surely trains your voice to be comfortable in lower registers, which will naturally alter it over time. Pick up a book you are at least moderately interested in, and practice for at least 10 minutes each day.
7. Attractive Minds
Aesthetics aren’t everything. Women consistently rank intelligence as one of the most attractive traits having nothing to do with how you look. Intelligence is correlated with success, charm, and general ability, so it makes sense from an Evolutionary standpoint as well. The following habits are pretty much guaranteed to make you smarter over time: strategy games – including video games, reading, and sobriety. So if you want to be more attractive to women, make sure to invest in your intelligence and think very carefully about the choices you make on a daily basis.
8. The Status Effect
Your social and financial status can have a profound effect on the impression you make around women. Women almost always prefer men with high levels of both. If you diligently invest in your career and other elements of your life such as your health, your status will increase with time. Results are not instantaneous, but they will certainly influence how attractive you’re perceived to be.
9. The Power of Posture
Not all of communication is verbal. In fact, most communication between men and women is done subconsciously through small signs and signals we convey with our bodies and the space we take up. For example, men who don’t pay attention to their posture often communicate unattractive qualities. They may have forward head posture or a more submissive orientation. In contrast, men who stand up straight with their shoulders back communicate strength and confidence.
10. Your Treatment of Others
Most of the points on this list have to do with surface level, first impression characteristics. For example, we have discussed the power of height, posture, and smiles. But women can often pick up on subtler character traits pretty quickly as well. Thus, it’s important that you treat people with kindness and respect. There’s nothing more attractive than being a good person to others while still sustaining high levels of confidence and self-esteem.
11. Your Pack
Who you hang around with plays a big part in who you are. If you choose to surround yourself with good people, you’re more likely to adopt good behaviors. If you surround yourself with bad people, the same rule applies. This is why many women pay special attention to the kind of people around you. If your friends are decent, respectful, intelligent people, and they make the women in their lives feel comfortable, it will reflect very highly on you.
12. Holding Eye Contact
Are you able to sustain eye contact when you are talking with a woman? This is a very important skill. Men who can meet the eyes of a woman and balance their gaze are often perceived to be confident and attractive. This doesn’t mean you should never look away. But it means that the scales should tip in favor of holding eye contact, and glances away should never lead to avoidant eyes. If you can learn to hold eye contact with the women you are talking to, it will be just one more way to make an attractive first impression. Thank you for watching TopThink and be sure to subscribe because more incredible content is on the way.